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	<title>Comments on: The Decision to Wean</title>
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		<title>By: Michelle</title>
		<link>http://michellewillingham.com/blog/2008/07/14/the-decision-to-wean/comment-page-1/#comment-15484</link>
		<dc:creator>Michelle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jul 2008 13:17:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rene--I don&#039;t blame you.  I&#039;m amazed that you were able to do it that long!   :worthy:  10 months is the longest I&#039;ve ever lasted.  Mainly it was because the older child was getting denied bedtime stories, etc.

Veronica--that&#039;s too cute!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rene&#8211;I don&#8217;t blame you.  I&#8217;m amazed that you were able to do it that long!   :worthy:  10 months is the longest I&#8217;ve ever lasted.  Mainly it was because the older child was getting denied bedtime stories, etc.</p>
<p>Veronica&#8211;that&#8217;s too cute!</p>
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		<title>By: Veronica</title>
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		<dc:creator>Veronica</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jul 2008 12:39:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I weaned my daughter at 19 months and it was heartbreaking for me. Her? Well she had days when she cried for &#039;boobies!&#039; (I told her they were empty) but she was mostly okay.

Although she still needs to put her hand down my top when she is sick or upset (she is 22mths) and occasionally she will try and suckle again. (She does 2 sucks, goes &#039;ahhhhh&#039; in a satisfied way, pulls my tops back down and tells me &#039;all done!&#039;).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I weaned my daughter at 19 months and it was heartbreaking for me. Her? Well she had days when she cried for &#8216;boobies!&#8217; (I told her they were empty) but she was mostly okay.</p>
<p>Although she still needs to put her hand down my top when she is sick or upset (she is 22mths) and occasionally she will try and suckle again. (She does 2 sucks, goes &#8216;ahhhhh&#8217; in a satisfied way, pulls my tops back down and tells me &#8216;all done!&#8217;).</p>
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		<title>By: Rene</title>
		<link>http://michellewillingham.com/blog/2008/07/14/the-decision-to-wean/comment-page-1/#comment-15479</link>
		<dc:creator>Rene</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jul 2008 18:54:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good luck with the weaning.  I weaned mine at 13 mos, 14 mos and, sigh, 22 mos.

My first two were easy.  My son realized he couldn&#039;t nurse and watch &quot;Blues Clues&quot; at the same time.  That stupid little puppy won.  I was relieved.  My daughter decided to bite at 14 mos.  That was enough for me.  The tough one was my youngest.  She had food allergies so I kept her on longer.  At 22 mos. she decided to increase her need to nurse.  I decided that was it.  She didn&#039;t like that at all.  Everytime I held her, she&#039;d trying pulling up my shirt.  She kept that up until after she was two.  

I have to say, by the time I weaned my kids, I had no emotional attachment to nursing.  That bond had worn itself out.  I felt nothing but relief.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good luck with the weaning.  I weaned mine at 13 mos, 14 mos and, sigh, 22 mos.</p>
<p>My first two were easy.  My son realized he couldn&#8217;t nurse and watch &#8220;Blues Clues&#8221; at the same time.  That stupid little puppy won.  I was relieved.  My daughter decided to bite at 14 mos.  That was enough for me.  The tough one was my youngest.  She had food allergies so I kept her on longer.  At 22 mos. she decided to increase her need to nurse.  I decided that was it.  She didn&#8217;t like that at all.  Everytime I held her, she&#8217;d trying pulling up my shirt.  She kept that up until after she was two.  </p>
<p>I have to say, by the time I weaned my kids, I had no emotional attachment to nursing.  That bond had worn itself out.  I felt nothing but relief.</p>
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		<title>By: Michelle Willingham</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michelle Willingham</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jul 2008 14:27:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks, Jamie and Amy.

Amy, with my firstborn, he weaned himself when he started foods.  Like you said, he just wasn&#039;t interested in nursing, and I lost my milk without really intending to.

It was still more emotionally traumatic to me.  I don&#039;t think the kids really cared.   :whistle:</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, Jamie and Amy.</p>
<p>Amy, with my firstborn, he weaned himself when he started foods.  Like you said, he just wasn&#8217;t interested in nursing, and I lost my milk without really intending to.</p>
<p>It was still more emotionally traumatic to me.  I don&#8217;t think the kids really cared.   :whistle:</p>
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		<title>By: Amy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jul 2008 14:22:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;Why do I feel like, if I blink, he’ll be going off to college? &lt;/i&gt; 

Um, because that&#039;s what it feels like. I can&#039;t believe my son is starting high school.  :confused54:  but I wouldn&#039;t trade one moment with him to turn back the clock. This is just so exciting, you know?

The thing I remember about when my boys self-weaned? The shock to my boobs. One day they nursed, next they didn&#039;t. Actually, I think they both nursed in the morning, and then didn&#039;t want their lunchtime feeding. Not went back and forth, but were just simply DONE. My glands were still in production mode HIGH and weren&#039;t prepared for the change. Ay-yi-yi. Ouch.

Take it slow. Ease into the transition. Your boobs will thank you.

BTW, your baby? Gorgeous!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>Why do I feel like, if I blink, he’ll be going off to college? </i> </p>
<p>Um, because that&#8217;s what it feels like. I can&#8217;t believe my son is starting high school.  :confused54:  but I wouldn&#8217;t trade one moment with him to turn back the clock. This is just so exciting, you know?</p>
<p>The thing I remember about when my boys self-weaned? The shock to my boobs. One day they nursed, next they didn&#8217;t. Actually, I think they both nursed in the morning, and then didn&#8217;t want their lunchtime feeding. Not went back and forth, but were just simply DONE. My glands were still in production mode HIGH and weren&#8217;t prepared for the change. Ay-yi-yi. Ouch.</p>
<p>Take it slow. Ease into the transition. Your boobs will thank you.</p>
<p>BTW, your baby? Gorgeous!</p>
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		<title>By: Jamie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jamie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jul 2008 12:53:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Michelle, what a beautiful picture of James!  I wish you luck on the weaning process.  It is an emotional time for your both.  I don&#039;t have any first-hand experience with nursing, but I can really feel your emotional tie to your son in the words that you&#039;ve written so eloquently about him and yourself.  Good luck!  Jamie</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Michelle, what a beautiful picture of James!  I wish you luck on the weaning process.  It is an emotional time for your both.  I don&#8217;t have any first-hand experience with nursing, but I can really feel your emotional tie to your son in the words that you&#8217;ve written so eloquently about him and yourself.  Good luck!  Jamie</p>
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